Friday, June 21, 2013


I'm in a paradox

This is a poem I wrote many years ago.  it's coming back to haunt me.
I am alone,
an orphan.
I wander, shabby,
in a cave or on a street...
in a car...or at 7-11.

I wander alone in the nightclub
listening to the barkers' call
beckoning me out of my aloneness
with their vacant voices

into open doors that reveal nothing
that I haven't already known...
like pain,
to make me feel alive.

when actually...

I am alone.
My movements are linear,
along forgotten railroad tracks
and empty streets
that pass a long way from oasis
or automobile stops
with hamburgers and cheap gas.

I am alone,
a wanderer in time,

a little ball...

no orbit,
just spinning out in space,

no nucleus to hold me,
no gravity stops.

I sit on bar stools, desk chairs, and factory trucks
turning over soil with no minerals in it...
delusions of real manure....

I am alone.

It's curious to me that while I don't feel all those feelings now, I do feel quite alone--which becomes especially paradoxical since I aspire to end duality.  It's a quandary "devoutly to be resolved."
I have lived in 8 different places since moving out of our townhouse in Fairfax in early May.  I have lived in a house version of a junk pile,  a small bed on a boat, in a tent, on the floor behind a couch, at a Motel 6, a room in Ashland, OR--friend's house, and until next Tuesday at an apartment in Terra Linda (San Rafael). After that, who knows?

Now, here's another poem that I wrote years ago, that makes an interesting compliment to the first one, but which enhances the intensity of the paradox I live in.

"On a walk
or pacing,
when I really want to focus in,
to perceive Him
I stare down into grass, dirt, or concrete,
for in that focus, mesmerized,
the sweet inner stare of the unknown Father filters up to me
and I gaze, 
as into nothing,
the ground within,
to walk in the experience of realizing
I am accompanied."

So, I am left with this poem as a possible way to resolve the dichotomy:


a face flows by me
            on the window sill
                        against drops of dew

a good morning face,
            feeling its own pulse
                        over the concrete

lying back into itself
            beginning to wrinkle
                        but unwilling to make

say 'hello', face
            and know
 Think on't
Andy Rumi 


Thursday, June 6, 2013

The Striders have left the building. Yes, it's official. I am nestless. This is the upgrade from homeless. It means that people will let you sleep on their couches, or at least in their car. 
Rochelle is happily ensconced on a beautiful yacht. She has all the luck. The owner won't let me stay on the yacht. I'm too messy plus his other considerations. 
So, I'm am on the fast track of adapting. FYI- according to Yeshua (Jesus) in the book by Glenda Green, "Love without end." Love is "harmonic adaptation to the environment." or as the Urantia Book says, "the meaning of life is in its adaptability." Or as I would say it, "Though separated at birth, adaptation and forgiveness are identical twins."
"Decisions, more decisions, and more decisions." I will be blogging about my adventures--working title, Winging It.
Moving out, going through over 40 years of stuff, living out of suitcases--each day an adventure in discovery. That's what I'm about now.
In the middle of this our son, Ian, got married on June 1st to Ping Tsai.  What a thrill that was for both families and friends!
So now, the search for the perfect context begins in earnest.  Hmmm..... where can we be that we can maximize our contribution, our creative potential and eat.
All suggestions are welcome.